Dear Mama,
You are doing a good job Mom.
I want you to know that I am happy.
Which is all I know that you worry about and want for me.
Me being a happy girl in life (and kind and strong and confident and healthy... I know).
I'm sure I will face times of sadness and tough times in the future, even worse than when you say no to m&m's.
But I also know I will always have you to get through those difficult times.
I am kind.
I share with others.
I love my friends.
I smile a lot, even just to try to make someone else smile.
I am patient, I try to be.
I listen to others.
I learn all of this from you.
I love to hold your hand, everywhere we go. (I know I am good at this :))
I know I stay close to you when we go places and when we are around a lot of people, it's because I love you and you make me feel safe.
My favorite place is in your arms.
You are a good mommy.
You let me wear all of your fancy necklaces, even though you know it will take you at least 20 minutes to untangle them.
You are always prepared with snacks when we go shopping. I love Hobby Lobby too, but sometimes we are there for a loooong time.
You let me pick out what I want to wear sometimes, even if it means snowboots in May.
I do not like to get in trouble, but most of all I just want to make you and daddy happy.
I love you, and I know sometimes you need my smiles just as much as I need yours.
I have so much fun with you.
I love all the girly things we do together.
You would dance with me all day long if I wanted you to.
You always make me look cute, even on days when all you want to do is wear a t-shirt and sweats.
You painted my toenails pink and now I am obsessed with them!
I love our quiet moments together.
When we get to talk and giggle and sing and play with each other's hair. (Thanks for letting me brush your hair even though I'm still learning to be gentle with the brush.)
And when we rock in the rocking chair, just you and me, and you sing to me (I love when you sing the little red box song, and Time after Time by Cyndi Lauper.)
Thank you for letting me learn to be brave and independent and try things on my own.
Like climbing to the top of the play gym at McDonald's all by myself.
Thank you for letting me eat more french fries than chicken nuggets that night too.
Thank you for being silly and funny just for me.
And for taking me to many fun and exciting places.
I love when we go for our walks together.
Even though the stroller may be easier to push you know that I love the wagon more.
When people say that I look like you.
It makes me happy.
I am proud to have you as my mama.
Thank you for letting me grow.
letting me make mistakes,
to stumble sometimes,
to learn not to give up,
to be myself.
I know you are not perfect and that you are learning too.
You are my mama,
and I love you.
Love,
Quinn
(2 years old)
I encourage all mamas to write a letter to themself from their child.
It is a good writing exercise.
Mom's can be hard on themselves sometimes, and sometimes the best compliments are hearing them from within.
Happy Mother's Day!